communicate. words. speak. connect. feel.

communication is the very essence to any kinds of relationship. to simply put it, communication is the very fundamental law of the universe for people to connect, to convey a message(s) correctly and to put your feelings across to people you care. without communication, obviously, that would lead to misunderstandings.

don't you find it funny? as children, we learn the alphabets. we learn how to spell and we learn how to communicate with people. we learn everything we possibly can to talk to someone. however, as we grow up, we know the basics and the importance of communication yet, most of the times, when something happens, because of certain reasons (fear, disappointment awkwardness), we tend to shy away from trying to communicate with the other party to work something out. we forgot how to use the words or the words we want to speak, they somehow get stuck between the teeth and the lips. those words never get delivered, messages never get conveyed, we never get to clear the misunderstandings.

on a side note:

- junior is diagnosed juandice-free yesterday and her weight rises from 2.6 to 2.8! now, papa happy, mommy happy and junior is happy! :D
- i left with 1.5 kilos to my pre-pregnancy weight :))

3 years of beautiful

that's how i look at it. 3 years of something really spectacular. we weren't perfect. there were dark days and days that i thought the sun couldn't compare to us. we were this work of fate that turned into a bond that couldn't be denied, only loved and cherished. our 3 years of beautiful are worth an eternity of memories, and the friendship that comes out of being that to someone, should never be lost. so know from here that i still love you, that i would always do anything for you and a large piece of my heart will always be yours. 3 years of beautiful, really beautiful. thank you for our little creation, thank you for those.

happy 3 years wedding anniversary, my darling dear.

awww....

who's birthday?

"我的生日愿望是要little girl快高长大!"

anyway, happy 62th papa-goh!